MY LOSSES

WE ALL LOOSE PEOPLE AND THINGS FROM THE DAY WE'RE BORN.
YOU CAN REPLACE THINGS ,MIGHT NOT BE THE SAME BUT STILL
REPLACEABLE. PEOPLE ON THE OTHER HAND,ARE LOSSES WE
HAVE TO LEARN TO LIVE WITH OVER TIME AND MANY TEARS.
I'VE LEARNED THIS THE HARD WAY OVER THE YEARS.
THERE IS NO DO OVERS; NO QUICK FIXES WHEN YOU LOOSE PEOPLE.
REALLY NO WAY TO EXPRESS THE FEELING , TO MAKE OTHERS SEE
AND UNDERSTAND FOR IT IS DIFFERENT WITH EACH LOSS.YOU SAY,
"I'M SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS";BUT PLEASE DON'T SAY I KNOW HOW YOU
FEEL . FROM EXPERIENCES I CAN ASSURE YOU ,NO ONE REALLY KNOWS
BUT YOU. SHARE MEMORIES OF GOOD TIMES INSTEAD OF SAYING,
"I'VE HAD A LOSS ,YOU'LL GET OVER IT,JUST LIKE I DID".CHEISH THOSE
GOOD MEMORIES,KEEP THEM CLOSE BY ,YOU WILL NEED THEM OVER
AND OVER AGAIN. I HAVE TONS OF GOOD MEMORIES ,THAT I RELY
ON TO LIVE DAY BY DAY. STRANGE HOW THEY ARE BROUGHT TO MIND
SOMETIMES; A SMELL,WORD,FLOWER,COLOR,SONG,PLACE OR THING;
CAN TRIGGER MEMORIES.SOME MEMORIES BRING AN INSTANT SMILE,
OTHERS ,A FLOW OF TEARS. YOU GROW USE TO THE IDEA OF LOSS
BUT THEY ARE NEVER REALLY FORGOTTEN.CHERISH YOUR LOVED
ONES ,DON'T MISS A CHANCE TO TELL THEM THEY ARE LOVED;FOR
YOU NEVER KNOW WHEN IT MIGHT BE YOUR LAST CHANCE.YOU CAN'T
GO BACK ,THERE'S NO DO OVERS;WHEN YOU LOOSE SOMEONE TO DEATH. BUT YOU HAVE MEMORIES GOOD AND BAD TO HANG ON TO.
TRY TO MAKE A GOOD MEMORY WITH SOMEONE YOU LOVE EACH DAY.